Arlene Parsons McIntyre, 91, a life-long resident of Fair Haven, NY, passed away peacefully at home on November 14, 2020. Beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, great-great-grandmother, and cherished friend to countless others.

Arlene leaves behind her four daughters, Janet Ross, Joan Deming (Chuck), Gail Deming (Bob), and Sandy Monahan (Bill), and their families, who will all deeply miss her. Her husband Bert, son-in-law Gordon, grandson Eric, and great-grandson Rieley welcomed her into heaven.

Arlene married her high school sweetheart, Bert McIntyre, in September 1947, and from there became a dedicated wife, mother, and grandmother. Her proudest achievement was her family. She was the cornerstone and supported her loved ones with uncommon grace. Arlene was well-known throughout the community for her contagious smile and friendliness. She had an effortless way of making everyone around her feel special and loved. Anyone who crossed her path was touched by her presence and naturally loved her.

A memorial is not yet scheduled at this time. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to a cause close to Arlene's heart, the food pantry at The Fair Haven Community Church, P.O. Box 302 Fair Haven, NY 13064. Arrangements are in care of the Becker-Keysor Funeral Home, Red Creek. www.catoredcreek.com